I hope that this doesn't come off sounding like a jerk; that's not the way I want to be perceived.
But I'm kinda with jag on this one. This is an incredibly disturbing subject for a lot of us, especially if we have young family members and automatically start to think of them being exploited or even desired. Just understand that most people can't possibly comprehend your feelings. Even after reading your post, I may know what you feel, but I can't know why. And don't want to. Yeah, it's a bit sticking my head in the sand, but the less I know the better I feel.
I appreciate your confronting this and trying to find a way to deal with it. But I don't think that we are your support group for something as complicated as this, and we are not trained counselors. Definitely find a counselor that can help you. Are there groups that can help with this?
You don't have to reply - I won't be checking back in.
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