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Old 10th January 2011, 07:30 PM
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Originally Posted by SmartAleq View Post
Being unwilling to the point of (feigned) inability to respect your partner's wishes and take her lead on how to deal with her rape is just another control tactic disguised as concern. It's letting her know that EVERY facet of her life, even her past, is his to decide how to feel about and deal with--it's no longer HER issue, he now OWNS it and she'd better damned well pay attention to what he says to do about it. So disrespectful.
That's a very good and interesting point.
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