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I admit that I've frozen someone out because I'm angry w/ them, but I had no interest in repairing our relationship; by the time they guessed I was mad and started trying to get into why I was long over their friendship and long past any hope of saving it. That was passive-aggressive, right?
But on the other hand, I show when I'm mad, you see if you've angered me usually, then I'm over it once the issue's resolved (if I give a damn to still want to know you).
What's prompted this is a VERY passive-aggressive friend who's personally offended by anyone being angry w/ her. Yesterday, I was angry at her over something, it got resolved ( I think) and then I got over it and we hung out for another few hours w/ her not bringing it up again. Since then she hasn't responded to any of my contact attempts. I've seen her do this from the outside, this must be what it's like to be her son/daughter/mom/sister/husband/boss - I've seen her play "Guess if I'm mad at you" w/ all those people in the 4 years I've known her and told her every time that it isn't cool.
Oh, and I'm a hard-headed person, yup yup.
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