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Originally Posted by Fenris
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Originally Posted by Solfy
Illicit affairs do.
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Exactly. My issue is lying to one's spouse, not boinking someone else. You wanna have a polyamorous relationship, be my guest.
You regularly lying to the person who, presumably is the closest person in the world to you? Bad, bad sign. If you can't keep a basic promise to your spouse, why should I, a stranger, trust you to keep a promise to me? |
Fine then. Show me how you
know that his spouse didn't know about it. You can't. You're just saying that since you think someone that has an affair obviously would NEVER let his wife know then this guy MUST be the same. It's not the same because you don't actually know now do you? A good friend of mine is an extremely successful lawyer and businessman. His wife has known all along that he has a Mistress and doesn't care because he's still there for her whenever she needs him. Does the general public know this? Nope. Why do I? Because he's a damn good friend and I've known his Mistress all my life. He's more honest than any other lawyer I've ever known in my life. But if, say, YOU knew he had an affair and didn't know that his wife knew all about it, you'd be the first to question his honesty?